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Posted 04/01/2008 11:50:00


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In an ideal world perhaps never, but there might be a place for it...
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Posted 04/01/2008 13:20:30
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......in Bonymaen (re BBC Wales "Rugby Club").
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Posted 04/01/2008 15:34:15


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Bonymaen ... that was a good show, I watch the series a few weeks ago.

As for swearing - never in front children - especially those under the age of 45.

Seriously though - never in front children

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Posted 04/01/2008 17:18:35
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I agree, but I'm much more concerned with aggressive behaviour - from children and adults - which often manifests itself with a tirade of abusive swearing.

I'm not talking about natural outbursts by the way, such as bashing a thumb with a hammer, but full on shouting matches, seething undercurrents or "red mists".

I think keeping a lid on it full stop - whether it's coarse language or anger - is pretty much a basic necessity for anyone in authority, particularly where children are involved.

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Posted 05/01/2008 18:57:48
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Never. Its a bad example at midi and youth level its not acceptable and you must be a role model. When they are running things for themslves leave them to it.

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Posted 07/01/2008 16:37:15
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Never should it be seen at age group level, think most importandly: Are kids running out to play for national pride or a salary? No, they wanna have fun, whether they are winning or losing - let kids have fun

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Posted 15/07/2008 14:17:44
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I believe swearing is the language of the unintelligent man....

Think about the most common swear word F***K

it can be substituted for all parts of speech so if you cannot think of an intelligent word you can easily swear.

I even dont swear coaching adults

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Posted 22/07/2008 11:58:25


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Mate, you're a better man than I...agreed re: coaching youth & when addressing refs (as difficult as THAT can be!)but I think with adults on the odd occasion, using swear words (despite the unintelligence it may reveal) can get a message across- in 5yrs of coaching provincial B rugby I swore at players twice- once at an AWEFUL practice & once in a final... both times the players took notice & reacted appropriately.

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Posted 28/07/2008 13:08:53
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